Thursday, October 21, 2021

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS for BETTY by TIFFANY MCDANIELS (By Nicole Thomas)

 

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS for BETTY

by TIFFANY MCDANIELS

 

1.       (p. 8, 245, 256, 372) Discuss what you know about the Aniwadi clan, the Cherokee, the Indian Removal Act, and the Trail of Tears.  Talk about how the Indian culture played a role within this novel.  How would this novel faired had it not contained the race/culture aspect within it?

2.       Discuss your appreciation (or unappreciation) of the articles and scripture given before and after each chapter.   

3.       (p. 22) Chapter 2 describes each of the Carpenter children.  (Leland, Fraya, Yarrow, Waconda, Flossie, Betty, Trustin, and Lint).  Betty’s father converses with Fraya in this chapter telling her she is his measurement.  She asks, “Why?”  He responds, “Because you’re important.”  Compare each of the siblings.  Their characters and personalities.  Their importance within the Carpenter family. 

4.       (p. 19) Discuss the significance of the half-eaten chocolate bar that Alka left on her father after Landon cut the soul out of him.

5.       (p. 19) Betty, in first person narrative, describes; “When I think of family now, I think of a big ol’ sorghum field, like the one my father was born in.  Dry brown dirt, wet green leaves.  And sweetness there in the hard canes…”  What do you think of when you think of family?

6.       (p.26) Betty’s father gives her some deer skin with some strange lettering on the backside.  He explains, “Cherokee is you.”  He adds; “They say don’t forget who you are.”  Why is this such an important point throughout the story?

7.       (p. 41, 436-7) While Betty helps her father lick the cigarette paper to roll, she makes note of the scar on his hands.  Years later, Betty finally inquiries about the burn scar on his palm.  He tells her the beautiful lie and then finally the ugly truth.  Discuss the stories her father often told her and why they were so important to not only her but to him as well. 

8.       (p. 69, 74, 279) Betty endured bullying and mistreatment in school because of her skin color.  She also faced ridicule from her own family members.  The longing to be accepted and even a friend of Ruthis’ was apparent yet after all of the meanness, Betty forgave Ruthis.  Do you believe her father, the one who she tended to lean on for strength, provided Betty what he could (with parenting and support)?   What contributed to Betty’s forgiveness?

9.       (p. 259, 422, 390) Betty secretly assembled a paper girl under her bed.  An ideal picture of what she wanted to look like.  She later tore up this girl from her floor and acceptance of herself? (Coming of age, Slipperwort’s advice, loss of sibling(s))

10.   (p. 116, 125, 69, 228, 244, 309, 348, 409, 410) Yellow was a color theme interwoven within Alka, Betty’s mother as well as Fraya’s life.  Discuss the dandelions, the lemons, the coffin, the dress, Fraya’s apartment, discuss the yellow world Alka escaped to, and discuss what yellow stood for. 

11.   (p. 196) Betty’s mother, Alka, crudely describes what her father had done to her as a child.  Why do you think Alka chose Betty to tell her secret to?  Do you believe anyone else were privy (other than her own mother) to what happened?  Betty’s mother continuously had breakdowns and eruptions.  Do you think her mother had exhibited these mental instabilities all her childhood?  If not, what do you suppose triggered or brought on her mother’s unhealthy state of mind in her later life?

12.   (p. 197) The Carpenter family exhibited unusual coping skills.  Some might describe these atypical approaches as eccentric or cultural differences.  For example, literally burying their secrets/problems, The Faraway Place, goodbyes in a jar, wishes to an eagle, were all extraordinary.  In your own words, how would you describe these measures? 

13.   (p. 130) The sisters connived to steal their father’s moonshine, Betty was chosen to occupy him, as she was “his favorite”.  Was Betty his favorite?

14.   (p. 206) Betty describes certain tings about her father were “chipping away from her”.  She thought the fantasy was fading.  Why do you think this was so?  (p.337) Later, her mother insists that her father “…deserves his child’s love. Especially from the child with the most starts.   What was unique about Betty’s relationship she shared with her father?

15.   (p. 232) Landon referred to his daughters as maize (Fraya), beans (Flossie) and squash (Betty).  Betty was designated to “save” her sisters.  This weight Betty bared and carried.  Was it fair to apply this concept to such a young child?  (p. 403) After leaving Fraya, Betty finds an owl caught on a fence line.   She meets an old lady who offers to care for the bird.  She tells Betty to never lose the thing that makes her want to save a life.  Discuss symbolism at this point in the story (owl, old woman, etc) Betty later realizes that the old lady and barn disappeared.   What really happened?  How would you explain what Betty experienced? 

16.   (p. 209) It would be of popular opinion to say that Alka was not a good mother.  However, Landon appealingly doted on Alka.  Why do you think this was so? (p. 248) Betty’s mother asks her, “Betty, do you love me.”  (p. 245, 275) There were many opportunities presented to Betty to despise her mother.  Do you believe Betty ever truly loved her mother?  (p. 469) In preparation of leaving, Betty reminisces with her mom about the flying June bugs.  “Because I was with you, Mom.”  Betty tells her.  What is your take on Betty’s gentleness at this time?

17.   Leland returned from serving in the military, he brought back gifts for each of his siblings.  He gave Freya a jewelry box.  Fraya, listening to her jewelry box, was one of the last memories Betty had of her sister.  Discuss Leland and what was revealed of his evil influence over Freya and her family.

18.   (p. 227, 239, 410) Fraya continued to live a secretive life.  Ashamed, Fraya slaps Betty after she learned that Betty discovered the secret.  Leland reacted a much different way when he found that Betty knew.  Compare the two’s reactions.  Discuss why this horrible incident was left to worsen and destroy. 

19.   Fraya was allergic to bee stings.  Fraya was found dead with her hand in a jar that contained a bee.  Discuss the details surrounding Fraya’s death.  Why did Leland kill Fraya? (p. 57, 218, 221, 403, 405)

20.   (p. 338) Discuss the tenderness aspect that the pony in the story gifted to the reader. 

21.   (p. 310, 415, 422) Betty’s father said, “…some pain you know you’ll always hold on to.”  Talk about how pain can be hard to let go of.  Talk about the pain endured in Betty and her family’s life.  (p. 415) After Trustin’s death Betty’s parents seemingly reconnected.  Betty commented, “Too bad grief made myths of everything.”  What did she mean by this?

22.   (p. 299-308) Old Woman Slipperoot was a lady whom Betty cared for during the summer.  She was peculiar woman, revealing wisdom and her nakedness often.  What did Betty learn from Old Woman Slipperoot?

23.   (p. 303) The novel follows Betty as she walks through childhood, onto coming of age, and finally reaching adulthood.  Did Betty ever accomplish in finding who she really was?  List some indications of this in how you might have come to this conclusion.  (p. 463) Betty claims to her dead father, “I know who I am now.”  How did she find herself?

24.   (p. 250, 317) Trustin demonstrated his jokingly personality, outwitting his sisters using his witty antics.  What role did he play in the Carpenter family?  (p. 344, 349, 362) Trustin’s death understandably caused heart ache and change within their family.  Talk about these changes.  Talk about Betty’s guilt associated with Trustin’s death.  (p. 346, 349) Should she feel guilty?

25.   (p. 470) While describing the pony’s new life with Cinderblock John, Betty uses a metaphor to describe; “…the need to go beyond the fence.  No matter how beautiful the pasture, it is the freedom to choose that makes the difference between a life lived and a life had.”  What do you suppose she meant by this?

26.   The novel, Betty held raw life experiences that the author revealed as occurring in her mother’s life.  Some of these instances were uncomfortable to read and to some were offensive.  At the end of the novel, while enduring the last moments of life, Betty’s father tells her he loves her.  Betty tells him; “You said them (the words, I love you) every time you told me a story.”  She later finds that he left her a typewriter holding a paper simply titled; “Betty, Chapter One”.  Do you believe this story needed to be told?

27.   (p. 463, 476) Landon’s quote; “No water is ever at rest.”  At the very end of the novel, Betty says;” I know now what he meant because the ripples of his death have weakened.  But the waters will never be still.”  What is your interpretation regarding her conclusion?  (Refer to page 462-3)

 

 

Talking Topics:

The boy who drove a car

Death of Betty’s grandpa

Leland minister

Landon’s garden

The Faraway Place

Cherokee language: Tsa-la-gi (p. 26)

Lint and his rocks and demons

Carrying Trustin’s coffin

Flossie and child, Nova

Old Woman Slipperwort

Cotton and balloon

Hank (p. 410) and Du-yu-go-dv (p. 467)

 

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